Oh no, 'flying off the handle' is not complaining nor gas lighting. I understand it as 'losing control of one's emotions' and was thinking of it as being not constructive.
You're giving no examples, and speaking anonymously as if you have some insight. This strikes me as intentional aggitation from a position of cowardice. All this convinces me of is that you're protecting bad actors by targeting me, not them. You're convincing me to spend more time on this topic because it is likely crucial.
"when he doesn't fly off the handle"
Complaining about people gas lighting you (and others) is "flying off the handle". Good to know.
Oh no, 'flying off the handle' is not complaining nor gas lighting. I understand it as 'losing control of one's emotions' and was thinking of it as being not constructive.
You're giving no examples, and speaking anonymously as if you have some insight. This strikes me as intentional aggitation from a position of cowardice. All this convinces me of is that you're protecting bad actors by targeting me, not them. You're convincing me to spend more time on this topic because it is likely crucial.
Thank you for helping me see that.