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Mathew Crawford's avatar

I wanted to get Part 1 out without fully open comments, but I'm allowing commenting by everyone for this one since the story is maturing through this point.

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Yes I've seen community erode in multiple different ways here in the UK. Accelerated by lockdowns. e.g. our rugby club has gone from 4 teams and a vets side down to 2 teams. e.g. my monthly geek friend meetup running for 18 years collapsed with no recovery after lockdowns.

Not to mention family atomisation and divorce leading to smaller households.

We scoped Mexico for a perm move, and the amount of multi-generational family time they're mustering puts the UK to shame.

My partner and I decided she would be a fulltime mum, and she gets a ton of societal heat for not "putting the baby on bottle" at 6months, 12 months etc. and "when are you going to get a job again?" meanwhile we observe infants and toddlers and kids lights going out. Raising a relaxed, self-motivated, curious child isn't valued enough by society. Like you say if we neglect the babies and they end up the opposite, what do we expect?

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